fed her for the first time in abt four mths...haha...haiz...but cats are like tt, the time after a meal is the time when they ditch u...they are alrd satisfied, so therez no need to hang ard....so they wud juz move on to grooming themselves, n the least they wud do is to give u a 'meow' as if to say 'thanks', n later walk off...haha...ttz wat they mean by cool cats...haha